HOW TO BE THE GUY EVERY GIRL WANTS

So this article is in two parts.
Part 1 of 2: Being the Best Version of Yourself
Part 2 of 2: Attracting Girls




1. Be confident: Confidence has a wealth of mental and physical health benefits, so no matter how you dress, how you look, or what you sound like, get comfortable with who you are (and be nice, no matter what).



2. Explore new stuff: Try listening to different styles of music. Try new foods, new sports, new art forms, woodworking, welding, automotive repair, programming, sewing, whatever! Find something that piques your interest.



3. Learn to laugh at yourself: Some of life's most fulfilling lessons are taught through one's failures no matter how big or how small, keep a positive attitude. Make improvements, not excuses.



4. Be giving: This isn't monetary or material, but giving in your interactions with others. When you share of yourself, you enrich not only the lives of others, but your own.


5. Accept help: Being an independent person is great. However, there are times in every person's life when he or she needs assistance. Never be afraid to accept it in those times, so that you may stand on your own later.



6. Respect others: Everyone, individually, knows so little about any one other person. Pasts, present circumstances, thoughts, feelings, intentions -- none of this can be divined from a glance, and it takes a lifetime to learn all there is to know about a person. So, respect other people, because you have no idea what most other people have gone through or are going through.



7. Don't worry about "girls," and certainly don't stress over "every girl." Besides, women are people, just like men are people. And all people want to be treated like people. If you really want a companion, make friends! Hang out with people -- regardless of gender, race, ethnicity, and sexual orientation. Introverted? That's cool, too. Expand your horizons and your potential. And, most importantly, just make sure you're satisfied with who you are.


Part 2 of 2: Attracting Girls



1. Be confident: The key to almost everything is confidence. If you're in any classes/activities together, make a side comment to her when walking past. Preferably a humorous one. Something that will make her laugh and respond. If she says something humorous, laugh. Whether it's funny or not. Walk alongside her in the hall and talk to her about a previous class or something along those lines. Walk her home if you can, or even halfway.



2. Remember, she's only a girl: She might be aggressive, she might be timid, or she might be really jumpy and alert. No matter what she acts like, she's still only a girl. She still has feelings, she'll still have fallen in love, and she'll still have felt heartbroken. If she ever looks downhearted, ask her if somethings wrong. If she doesn't want to tell you, don't pressure her, just let her know you're always there if she wants to talk.



3. Compliment her: Everyone love compliments. Compliment her personality, her appearance or one of her achievements. Be careful, she might think you're leading her on, and if you have no intentions of a relationship with her you might just break her heart.



4. Try out her favourite bands or TV shows: If she wants you to listen to a band she likes or watch a program she enjoys, try them out. Once you have, tell her your opinions on them. If you don't like them, a simple "They're okay, not my favourite." Will do. Be gentle with her.



5. Be funny: Girls love to be around a guy that can make her laugh. It can be a joke, or it can just be in your actions. Never try to make her laugh by insulting someone else, that's just not cool.



6. Share things with her: If you have a beverage, offer her a drink of it. If you have a chocolate bar, break off a part and offer her it. If you have a bag/packet of sweets, always offer her a few. When listening to your iPod, ask her if she wants an earphone. If she doesn't like the music, switch it off and put it away. Let her know she comes before music.


7. Tell her things: Let her know you trust her, and hopefully she won't abuse that. She'll come to trust you, and when she does, don't ever spread what she tells you around.



8. Be sensitive: If she tells you something personal, don't laugh. Don't ever laugh at her misfortune, and if she cries always try to comfort her, even if it's over something ridiculous.